To Be or Not to Be…Vulnerable

August 8, 2017
To Be or Not to Be…Vulnerable

I received an article from a reader named Vicki that immediately struck me as worthy of discussion/debate here at HUS. It’s from the Sydney Morning Herald, an Australian newspaper that has run some interesting articles about relationships over the years. In Why do we expect relationships to work instantly? writer and actor Koraly Dimitriadis argues that […]

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How Millennials Turned Out Much Better Than Their Boomer Parents

July 31, 2017
How Millennials Turned Out Much Better Than Their Boomer Parents

A new analysis of General Social Survey data confirms what we’ve seen in other research – Millennials are a lot more sexually conservative than their Boomer parents. Earlier studies have shown that: Millennials are forecast to have 8 sexual partners during their lifetime, compared with 11 for Boomers. (Millennials’ grandparents – the WWII generation – […]

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What You Look Like Is Not Who You Are

July 13, 2017
What You Look Like Is Not Who You Are

Today’s post is a different sort than I usually write. No studies, statistics, or tactical dating advice. I’ve been thinking about this idea for a while, and it keeps coming back to me. I finally realized I needed to write it down to share it with you. What you look like – the physical form […]

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Are You Sexually Objectifying Yourself?

July 7, 2017
Are You Sexually Objectifying Yourself?

Ever since the second wave of feminism in the 70s, we’ve heard a lot about the “male gaze,” which is defined as “the way in which the visual arts and literature depict the world and women from a masculine point of view, presenting women as objects of male pleasure.” The phrase was coined by film critic Laura […]

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Paying For Dates Is Getting Incredibly Awkward

June 29, 2017
Paying For Dates Is Getting Incredibly Awkward

A recent article in the Wall St. Journal highlights how incredibly uncivil we’ve become toward one another. I don’t know whether this is related to the climate of political partisanship, but it sounds like we’ve hit a new low in dating. In Who Pays on the First Date? No One Knows Anymore, and It’s Really Awkward […]

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