A Hooking Up Smart Success Story

September 1, 2015
A Hooking Up Smart Success Story

Reader Ana has suggested that it might be helpful to readers to hear some HUS success stories. Although I do share some success stories in the comment threads, she’s right that I haven’t specifically focused on them. I think of myself as being in the business of solving problems strategically. I look for the reader’s pain […]

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Online Dating Advice to Use Now

August 28, 2015
Online Dating Advice to Use Now

Online dating is huge, and growing rapidly due to the acceptance of swipe-oriented apps by Millennials. It now accounts for nearly a quarter of “how me met” stories among newlyweds. Here are several resources I find especially helpful in navigating the online dating process: Online Dating: How to Make Your First Impression Count I like […]

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The Slow Burn is Where It’s At

August 26, 2015
The Slow Burn is Where It’s At

We live in an era when we may satisfy our desires within nanoseconds of expressing them. We focus on getting the most out of every minute. We chase down productivity hacks in hopes of creating more time in which we can achieve. We even schedule 7 minute meditations, a counterintuitive practice if ever I’ve heard […]

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A HUS Reader Went Undercover on a Sugar Daddy Site

August 21, 2015
A HUS Reader Went Undercover on a Sugar Daddy Site

Please welcome a guest post by longtime reader Jacqueline (not her real name). Jacqueline guest posted once before six years ago – we go way back! I respect and admire her values, and I’ve been really pleased that she’s stayed in touch over the years. Today Jacqueline is a prominent journalist in NY. We’ve been discussing […]

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Ashley Madison Cheaters Are All Men!

August 20, 2015
Ashley Madison Cheaters Are All Men!

So here’s an interesting tidbit. The hackers who broke into Ashley Madison have made good on their threat and released the personal data of more than 32 million members. And you know what? They’re almost all men. I’m gobsmacked. Honestly, I have felt personally horrified for ages that married men and women in those numbers have been […]

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