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How to Attract and Understand Men

10 Ways to Get Inside His Head

Do Pretty Girls Have it Harder?

Why Nice Guys Ignore the Girls They Like

Is Your Best Guy Friend Thinking of You With His Right Hand?

Guys: An Instruction Manual

20 Reasons You Don’t Have a Boyfriend

How to Find a Great Guy

How to Flirt Like They Do On the Discovery Channel

7 Loser Guys to Waste Your Youth and Beauty On

The Man Code Sucks!

Sexual Attraction + Compatibility = Nothing?

Why Doesn’t He Call?

7 Totally Lame Excuses for Why He Cheated

Player or Boyfriend? It’s Written on His Forehead

How to Stimulate Demand in a Relationship Recession

Sex is Strategic. So Should You Be.

How to Blow His Mind in Bed

The Sex Risk for Women That No One Likes to Talk About

How to Attract and Understand Women

Why Women are Hottest in Countries With Too Few Dudes

The Nice Guy Dilemma

Only Four Words Stand Between You and the Girl of Your Dreams

7 Things Women Want to Hear (But Only if You Mean It)

What Women Really Think About Penis Size

Are Women Cut Out to Be Friends With Benefits?

What Women Really Want From Men

25 Totally Awesome Things I Love About Men

Relationships and Commitment

Are You Dating a Narcissist?

10 Signs That Your Hookup is Falling For You

5 Ways to Get More Control of Your Relationships

How to Keep Your Long-Distance Relationship Smoking Hot

Moving From Hookup to Girlfriend

How to Figure Out if He Has Relationship Potential

I Married a One-Night Stand

Be All the Things You Want In a Partner

The Girls’ Kickass Guide to Getting Over a Breakup

How to Let Your Guard Down and Love Again

How to Find a Great Guy

My Exotic Destination Theory of Relationships

Sex

Five Reasons Why You Should Have Lots of Sex

How to Blow His Mind in Bed

Sex is Chemistry, and It’s Never Casual

When Should You Agree to Sex? Guys Tell it Straight

What Straight Men Can Learn From Gay Porn

Sex: Men Desire It, and Women Control the Supply

Sleeping Around

Stop Putting Out For Alpha Asshats

Don’t Settle for Bad Hookup Sex

Boycott Man Whores!


Hookup Culture and Politics

Is Porn Changing the Way We Kiss?

How Feminism Got Drunk and Hooked Up With a Loser

Why do Feminists Find Abstinence Intolerable?

The Combustible Mixture of Sex and Alcohol

Scheherazade Goes to College

The World of Hanging Out and Hooking Up

What’s Dumb About Hooking Up? Part I

What’s Dumb About Hooking Up? Part II

Hookups Reflect the Supply and Demand for Sex


Just for Fun

The 10 Greatest Love Stories of All Time

I’ll Take Boxer Briefs

1 Mike December 23, 2009 at 11:08 pm

Hi Suzana, I know you have an “Understanding women” section, but could we also have an “Attracting women” section as an advice for us guys to attract someone who matches our full potential.

best!

2 susanawalsh December 23, 2009 at 11:12 pm

Mike, one of my first posts in the New Year will be: How to Get the Girl Without Acting Like a Jerk. Stay tuned! Thanks so much for your comments. I'll add the section as soon as I get enough material.

3 kubathemaster January 4, 2010 at 7:55 am

Hah, its not really a question of getting a girl is it ? and being yourself Jerk or not will truly come out in time… tee hee

4 Michael May 3, 2010 at 1:34 pm

and being yourself Jerk or not will truly come out in time… tee hee

What is important that it does not come out before you cum in her.

5 stephen mosher December 25, 2010 at 9:49 pm

I have a [ Q ] I have not had a girl friend in a long time, in fact years I have asked so many women just to go get somthing as simple as a cup of coffie and they say no, wich is ok if they dont want to but later my friends started joking with me when a woman said no but soon it was not joking anymore friends and others laughed at me make fun of me just because I cant get a girl friend or even a date. I know this might be silly but is their a exception to the rule to how many guy’s will never find love ever, and if so I just want to know the truth so I dont waste any more time looking for somthing that just does not exists at least for me.

6 Geoff 2 January 13, 2011 at 1:40 pm

@Stephen Mosher,

Go to roissy.wordpress.com and change your behavior.

7 Yuan May 15, 2011 at 3:56 am

hello, this is a great website! actually i want to comment in the “penis size” section but too many comments there, so i post this here. Actually in my country, Indonesia penis size actually DOESN’T MATTER in order to satisfy a women. It’s quality that matters. What I mean quality is the erection, the ejaculation, and the technique (foreplay, interplay, afterplay). Of course the environment also plays part, but never penis size is the complain. And also I’m working at the sexuality clinic in my country.

What a women need to a penis is actually the penis reach and stimulate the “enigmatic” G-spot adequately in order to receive a g-spot orgasm which is believed to be quite intense. I Didn’t say g spot orgasm is much more satysfactory but g spot orgasm is what i say unique and different and best combined with clitoral orgasm.

G spot position is actually not more than 4-5 inch in the upper wall of the vagina, in asia it is actually only 3-4 inch. So technically a penis of maximum 5 inch is enough to make every woman g spot and make them having a g spot orgasm.

you can check my blog to see where the g spot is, its also available with video

http://yuanadesukma.wordpress.com/2011/05/02/where-is-the-female-g-spot-located/

thank you, nice to know you :)

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