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Looking for advice or commentary on a specific topic? Here are the most popular posts on Hooking Up Smart:
Relationship Strategies
10 Signs That Your Hookup is Falling For You
5 Ways to Get More Control of Your Relationships
Understanding and Managing Jealousy
Integrity: The Cure for Emotional Whiplash
How to Figure Out If He’s Worth It
How to Figure Out if He Has Relationship Potential
How to Keep Your Long-Distance Relationship Smoking Hot
Intimacy Lite, a Product Not Worth Buying
Demanding More From Your Hookups
Don’t Settle for Bad Hookup Sex
Moving From Hookup to Girlfriend
Brilliant Dating Advice From a Dead Virgin
Bitchslap That Dude to Make Him Heel
The Girls’ Kickass Guide to Getting Over a Breakup
How to Get the Sweetest Revenge Ever
Attracting Guys
10 Ways to Get Inside His Head
How to Flirt Like They Do On the Discovery Channel
How to Stimulate Demand in a Relationship Recession
Sex is Strategic. So Should You Be.
Understanding Guys
Why Nice Guys Ignore the Girls They Like
Is Your Best Guy Friend Thinking of You With His Right Hand?
Thinking Outside the Friend Box
Sex: Men Desire It, and Women Control the Supply
Sexual Attraction + Compatibility = Nothing?
7 Totally Lame Excuses for Why He Cheated
Translator Needed for 10 Hour Text Convo
7 Loser Guys to Waste Your Youth and Beauty On
What Straight Men Can Learn From Gay Porn
Hooking Up With a Cheating Guy
The Stamina of Michael Phelps. Ouch!
Understanding Women
What Women Really Think About Penis Size
25 Totally Awesome Things I Love About Men
7 Things Women Want to Hear (But Only if You Mean It)
Personal Development
A Crash Course in Relationships
How to Achieve Pure Fabulousness
How to Be a Femme Fatale and Grab the World By the Balls
Why Babies Get What They Want and You Don’t
You are Not a Fool, Even If You Fell For a Dickhead
Hookup Culture
The World of Hanging Out and Hooking Up
Bros and Hos: Relationship Foes?
What’s Dumb About Hooking Up? Part I
What’s Dumb About Hooking Up? Part II
Hookups Reflect the Supply and Demand for Sex
Is Porn Changing the Way We Kiss?
Are Women Cut Out to Be Friends With Benefits?
Why do Feminists Find Abstinence Intolerable?
Sex and the City Has a Lot to Answer For
[...] Relationships can be tricky things and most of the time, I find myself learning by doing (i.e. Learning from my mistakes). Sure, I can run to a newsstand and pick up the latest men’s magazine in the hopes of catching an advice column as to what I’m supposed to do next in my relationship. I’ve even been known to read women’s magazines and romance novels to get into the female psyche and peruse great blogs like Hooking Up Smart, a wonderful blog for women (and men…I read it frequently) seeking advice on personal development and relationships. [...]
Hi Suzana, I know you have an “Understanding women” section, but could we also have an “Attracting women” section as an advice for us guys to attract someone who matches our full potential.
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Mike, one of my first posts in the New Year will be: How to Get the Girl Without Acting Like a Jerk. Stay tuned! Thanks so much for your comments. I'll add the section as soon as I get enough material.
Hah, its not really a question of getting a girl is it ? and being yourself Jerk or not will truly come out in time… tee hee