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[...] Relationships can be tricky things and most of the time, I find myself learning by doing (i.e. Learning from my mistakes). Sure, I can run to a newsstand and pick up the latest men’s magazine in the hopes of catching an advice column as to what I’m supposed to do next in my relationship. I’ve even been known to read women’s magazines and romance novels to get into the female psyche and peruse great blogs like Hooking Up Smart, a wonderful blog for women (and men…I read it frequently) seeking advice on personal development and relationships. [...]
Hi Suzana, I know you have an “Understanding women” section, but could we also have an “Attracting women” section as an advice for us guys to attract someone who matches our full potential.
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Mike, one of my first posts in the New Year will be: How to Get the Girl Without Acting Like a Jerk. Stay tuned! Thanks so much for your comments. I'll add the section as soon as I get enough material.
Hah, its not really a question of getting a girl is it ? and being yourself Jerk or not will truly come out in time… tee hee
What is important that it does not come out before you cum in her.