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Great Sex Does Not Inspire Commitment

September 3, 2015
Great Sex Does Not Inspire Commitment

CG left a comment in the success story thread that is so epic and insightful, I have to share it. She hit on something I’ve never written about here, though I know all about it. She describes a trap that so many young women fall into – and it’s painful to hear. Here’s CG describing […]

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A HUS Reader Went Undercover on a Sugar Daddy Site

August 21, 2015
A HUS Reader Went Undercover on a Sugar Daddy Site

Please welcome a guest post by longtime reader Jacqueline (not her real name). Jacqueline guest posted once before six years ago – we go way back! I respect and admire her values, and I’ve been really pleased that she’s stayed in touch over the years. Today Jacqueline is a prominent journalist in NY. We’ve been discussing […]

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Ashley Madison Cheaters Are All Men!

August 20, 2015
Ashley Madison Cheaters Are All Men!

So here’s an interesting tidbit. The hackers who broke into Ashley Madison have made good on their threat and released the personal data of more than 32 million members. And you know what? They’re almost all men. I’m gobsmacked. Honestly, I have felt personally horrified for ages that married men and women in those numbers have been […]

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The Wrong Tool For the Job

August 17, 2015
The Wrong Tool For the Job

Would you use this  to make this  ? How about these to prune this  ? Would you choose this  to paint this  ? How about these   for this  ? OK! Makes no sense! So why use this Tool  to get this  ? (Threesome image by © Ben Welsh/zefa/Corbis) And why use this  to get this  ? You can’t get the job done when you keep picking […]

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Is the VF Tinder Article Feminist Propaganda?

August 14, 2015
Is the VF Tinder Article Feminist Propaganda?

Nancy Jo Sales is drawing a lot of criticism for the bias inherent in her story claiming that Tinder has destroyed dating. Jesse Singal of New York Magazine takes her to task for her cherry picking of anecdotes: “If you hang out with stats geeks for long enough, one of them will probably utter the sentence, […]

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