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Do Tall, Fit Men Have More Sex Partners? Nope.

November 19, 2015
Do Tall, Fit Men Have More Sex Partners? Nope.

Have you heard the one about the top 10% of the men getting all of the wimminz? That only tall, fit men have a prayer of getting female attention? Turns out they don’t do better than other men, at least when it comes to the number of sex partners. A new study in the journal Evolutionary […]

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Why Women are Sexually Disgusted By Players

November 4, 2015
Why Women are Sexually Disgusted By Players

Today’s post is the first in a series based on Mate: Become the Man Women Want.  It’s co-authored by reformed bad boy Tucker Max and evolutionary psychologist Geoffrey Miller, who also wrote The Mating Mind. For guys who want a better understanding of women, you can’t beat this book. For starters, it’s brutally honest – which puts […]

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College Students Still Reject Hookup Culture

October 20, 2015
College Students Still Reject Hookup Culture

New data on the sexual behavior of college students! The Cut at New York Magazine partnered with SurveyMonkey to gather data on the sex habits of college kids, and nearly 800 people responded. Their findings very much confirm what I have been saying for the last few years: Millennials want less casual sex, more relationships, […]

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Date-onomics: Dating By the Numbers

October 13, 2015
Date-onomics: Dating By the Numbers

I want to wake up, in a city that doesn’t sleep And find I’m king of the hill Top of the heap   These little town blues Are melting away I’ll make a brand new start of it In old New YorkIf I can make it there, I’ll make it anywhere It’s up to you, […]

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The Pervasive Sexual Objectification of Professional Women

September 18, 2015
The Pervasive Sexual Objectification of Professional Women

As a young professional in the 80s, I regularly fought off sexual remarks and proposals from mostly older and married male bosses. They frequently commented on my appearance and sexuality, which I can assure you was never on display in the office. HR was not tuned in yet to these sorts of problems, and the […]

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