Personal Development

The #1 Secret to Great Sex

March 11, 2015
The #1 Secret to Great Sex

“The art of sensuality has largely been lost and replaced by its vulgar distant cousin twice removed- sexuality.” Theodora Conrad Sex sells. As a result, we’re constantly bombarded with explicit media. Yet we’re having less sex in relationships, and fewer orgasms with our partners. Men impatiently fast-forward to the money shot through even the most hard-core […]

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Flaunt Your Imperfections to Get More Dates

March 5, 2015
Flaunt Your Imperfections to Get More Dates

OKCupid founder Christian Rudder’s recent book Dataclysm includes a chapter entitled Death By a Thousand Mehs. Rudder reveals that the most messaged women on the site have high “variance.” That means they have lots of enthusiastic fans, but also lots of haters: “A very low-rated women (20th percentile) with high variance in her votes gets […]

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Keep Risking Rejection

February 25, 2015
Keep Risking Rejection

Rejection hurts. There’s no way around it. Yet like all negative or threatening emotions, it serves a purpose. Rejection furthers many social goals, which explains its prevalence in human behavior and groups. For example, punishing deviance creates a moral code for the community. Rejection is also an unavoidable by-product of a woman’s right to carefully […]

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Embrace the Power of the Sexual Gatekeeper

February 23, 2015
Embrace the Power of the Sexual Gatekeeper

One unfortunate side effect of cultural change since the Sexual Revolution is the belief that sex is a level playing field where the sexes are equipped with the same objectives, strategies, and playbooks. Despite rampant feminist denial of biological differences between men and women, our radically different reproductive biologies ensure that we will never – and […]

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The Best Ways to Become More Attractive?

January 12, 2015
The Best Ways to Become More Attractive?

Maybe because it’s the start of a new year, a recent post about the role of physical attractiveness in dating generated some interesting comments. Anacaona, briebo and Diane all remarked on various ways that women can make improvements to put forward their most attractive selves in dating. Good teeth were prioritized. Also mentioned were clothing and […]

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