Relationship Strategies

What To Do If You Had Sex Too Soon And It’s Got You Feeling Insecure

December 11, 2014
What To Do If You Had Sex Too Soon And It’s Got You Feeling Insecure

Today I’m pleased to offer a guest post by Duana C. Welch, PhD. Duana writes the blog Love Science: Research-Based Relationship Advice for Everyone. She’s a psych professor in Austin, TX and I’ve been a fan of her work for some time. She has a new book coming out next month: Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps […]

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How Location Affects Your Career and Relationship Prospects

December 10, 2014
How Location Affects Your Career and Relationship Prospects

One of the first tasks in developing an effective dating strategy is conducting an environmental assessment of your local dating market – the pond you compete in. What is the sex ratio where you go to school or live? What is the local dating culture? How easy is it to meet other singles? Which online […]

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How to Avoid Being a Sexual Conquest

November 25, 2014
How to Avoid Being a Sexual Conquest

My Thanksgiving houseguests arrive tonight, but I wanted to eke out one post this week. I wish you a wonderful Happy Thanksgiving with family and friends. I am thankful to each one of you for reading, commenting, and making HUS a supportive and informative community! Also, I want to share a link I think you’ll find illuminating. […]

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The Toll of Bad Dating Experiences

November 20, 2014
The Toll of Bad Dating Experiences

“You are the sum total of everything you’ve ever seen, heard, eaten, smelled, been told, forgot – it’s all there. Everything influences each of us, and because of that I try to make sure that my experiences are positive.” Maya Angelou As an avid reader, when I finish a book I often judge it on one […]

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A Player Seeks Redemption

November 13, 2014
A Player Seeks Redemption

Susan, Going to make a long story short, but I am a 29 year old attractive male who has the “Player” stigma from the people that surround me due to my old days. I have fallen in love with a friend who shows me all the signs that she likes me as well, but WILL […]

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