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Sexual Fantasies: Surprising New Findings

November 10, 2014
Sexual Fantasies: Surprising New Findings

It wasn’t so long ago that homosexuality was listed as deviant behavior in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). Still listed are many sexual fantasies that have come to be viewed as somewhat commonplace. Historically, there’s been little research on sexual fantasies, and it has focused exclusively on college students. A new study of […]

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The More Things Change, the More They Stay the Same

October 21, 2014
The More Things Change, the More They Stay the Same

At the risk of coming across as an old and uncool English teacher, I want to share an amazing poem I just found. Published in 1922 in a literary journal, the language is of another time, but the conversation is timeless.  In the Orchard “I THOUGHT you loved me.” “No, it was only fun.” “When we stood there, […]

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Punk’d on Tinder

September 30, 2014
Punk’d on Tinder

There’s an interesting pair of videos making the rounds, with both male and female versions. A couple of pickup artists made the vids after learning that while women’s greatest fear in online dating is meeting up with a serial killer, men are most fearful of meeting someone fat. Not having access to any serial killers, […]

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Mismatched Lust Between the Sexes

September 18, 2014
Mismatched Lust Between the Sexes

OKCupid founder Christian Rudder has a new book out: Dataclysm: Who We Are (When We Think No One’s Looking). Rudder is the guy responsible for the always fascinating OKTrends blog, which he started in 2009. From Nate Silver’s blog Five Thirty Eight, we learn that Dataclysm is based on Rudder’s OKTrends posts, for which he spent countless hours […]

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What Does a Person’s Sexual Number Really Tell Us?

September 16, 2014
What Does a Person’s Sexual Number Really Tell Us?

One thing that’s changed dramatically during the last generation is the fixation of young people on their sexual “number.” That is, the number of people they’ve had sex with. (Note: We’re talking P in V here.) I have never been asked the question, nor have I ever asked a man to share his number. Well, that’s […]

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