The more I learn about male psychology, the clearer it becomes that emotionally mature men want intimate relationships. Sex differences notwithstanding, men need love to be happy.
While it’s true that high testosterone is correlated to cheating and other unfriendly behaviors, there are many exceptions. I recently came across an interesting story about a successful woman entrepreneur who launched Babiators with support from her husband, a fighter pilot. Look at this love note he made her, awwww:
If a man doesn’t want a relationship, there are three possibilities, as far as I can tell:
1. He is immature.
2. He is transient. (often related to #1)
3. He is emotionally dysfunctional.
The most important criterion in selecting a partner is his enthusiasm for getting into a relationship. If he is reluctant or ambivalent, f*ck it, drive on.