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12:33 am
November 22, 2011
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QuoteHey guys!
Check out this post on reddit: http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1340ze/which_woman_would_you_prefer/
The poster asked guys which Type of woman they preferred, A(lpha) or B(eta). (By the way, $50 on which type this chick thinks she is, lol.)
The consensus was "a little bit of both". Now, I know that we're pretty familiar with the Alpha/Beta dichotomy, but the descriptors as applied to girls are still somewhat nebulous. Which is why I thought I'd bring the conversation over here!
Notice the language used in the comments and original post. There are some clear positives and negatives attributed to both "types". So, knowing what we know about behavior and physical appearance, what kind of things can we come up with in order to develop better "Girl Game"?
6:49 pm
November 22, 2011
OfflineNot really, more like, "these are the general attributes that are desirable."
What I'm more interested in is desirable attributes that are behavioral. We know that you gotta be slim/pretty/etc. in appearance, but what certain je ne sais quoi behaviors do you find attractive in women?
You can speak from personal preference too, I'm well aware YMMV on this question.
Okay, Behavior. Below are behaviors that I have enjoyed in the past. I have reworked behavior that I did not enjoy into the way I would have liked it to have been.
- I like when she overtly flirts with me, but in a submissive way. (like she would be approaching me for first time and is a bit nervous, even though we've been dating for months and is confident in our relationship)
- I like when she has a life of her own and she is happy to share new things of hers with me (rather than seek me out to provide new things to make her happy). (There is a middle ground between independent and clingy, and it will differ based on the couple).
- I like when she is happy and positive.
- I like when she is curious about… anything really.
- I like when she listens and cares about what I am passionate about.
- I like when she is impressed by me.
- I like when she initiates 
- I like when she plays guitar and sings to me.
7:37 pm
: "And one thing that comes along with a lot of money is a lot of power, and people become accustomed to yielding their will."Translation: Dudes with money don't put up with the melodrama from some entitled celebutard wanna be diva. Rich dudes don't think being a woman in a relationship means the woman runs the show, is always right or sets the tempo of the relationship. Hence, when these useless divas with over-inflated views of themselves are told "NO" by someone with the game, balls and swagger to follow thru – ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE.
4:21 pm
November 22, 2011
OfflineTom.s, going by the list you provided, would it be fair to say that you're interested in child-like behavior? I ask because I occasionally engage in some silly, child-like antics around my BF and for whatever reason, he thinks it's adorable.
Joe Opinion, wtf does your comment have to do with anything here??
Yes, it is very adorable. Including giggling!
But I must point out that not all child-like behavior is adorable. No one likes someone who kicks, screams, begs, whines, annoys, pouts, is spoiled, cannot handle situations like an adult, etc…
11:41 pm
November 22, 2011
OfflineRight, just the "cute" behaviors, got it.
Although I do recall a story about one guy (I think it was on Reddit) who was so turned on by his girlfriend looking so cute when she was upset (stomping her foot, pouting) that he actually instigated arguments just to see her get mad. The relationship ended of course, but really, how odd!
That is really messed up.
I've only had one relationship, and it was with a girl who acted very cute at times (and tomboyish at other times). But I'll tell you, she was JUST as likely to act like a baby. And eventually I had to end it. It truly wore me down to the point where I had little interest. I would get frustrated when she would text/call.
So I've yet to date someone who does not act cute. I relate it to Feminine? Is that fair? Or is feminine behavior different?
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