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How do you show your attraction?
October 15, 2012
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I would like to know how the women here show their attraction towards men (that they would like to get to know/date).

 

Sure, I have googled this, but I want to hear your thoughts.

 

As a side note I am trying to become less aloof!  I believe I noticed one girl tell another to 'check me out' from across the grocery check out lines.  Maybe because I'm new to town?  I THINK NOT!!!  PRobably because I'm just supppper handsome!  ;)

 

But really, I am trying to become less aloof. So help me out please.

 

Thanks

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October 23, 2012
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Tough question; I'm not really conscious of what I'm doing.

 

I suppose I tend to bite my lower lip more, I play with my hair more, I touch his arm more…all the basics of kino, lol. I try to say something witty and cringe minutes later because I am sure it was dumb.

 

As for your aloofness….is this with respect to one person in particular, or in general?

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October 24, 2012
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My aloofness is towards women showing attraction to me (in general).

 

I think it's a way of rationalizing a way to avoid approaching someone I am attracted to (due to anxiety).

 

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November 26, 2012
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Yet women still check you out, no? :)

Re: approaching women, maybe just try it a few times, but with the express purpose of NOT getting her number? "What book is that? I thought that (writer) had a new book out, how is it?" "What did you get in that smoothie? It looks delicious!" etc. etc., as long as you've got a good interaction going on, you can build from there.

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November 29, 2012
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I've noticed that the less I am attracted to someone the more I am able to sense their attraction towards me… like I'm more objective!

 

We've all had those times when someone hits on our friend and we say "Hey, they TOTALLY like you!"  And the friend is unsure our doubtful.

 

The more attracted I am to someone, the more aloof I really am.

 

And yes, I really just need to man up.

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