Sex is Not a Skill Set

November 10, 2016
Sex is Not a Skill Set

In The One Real Way to Get Better at Sex, the principal investigator at the Sexual Psychophysiology and Affective Neuroscience Lab at UCLA says there is no such thing as someone who is “good at sex.” Sex is not a skill set you can pack up and travel with, moving from partner to partner. According […]

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Are You Dating a Man or a Man-Child?

November 3, 2016
Are You Dating a Man or a Man-Child?

Good relationships require maturity. That’s why we don’t marry until our hormones have stopped raging and our character, goals, and development are well underway. We want to marry a man, not a man-child. We generally use age as a way of quickly judging maturity, but it can be a poor predictor. Some eighteen year-olds are […]

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Emotionally Intelligent Husbands Accept Influence of Wives

October 31, 2016
Emotionally Intelligent Husbands Accept Influence of Wives

Many of us are familiar with marriage expert Professor John Gottman‘s claim that he can predict whether a couple will divorce just moments after meeting them – with 94% accuracy. The tell is whether the couple displays contempt for one another. That statistic came out of a six-year longitudinal study of 130 newlywed couples. The research […]

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Time Management and Online Dating

October 24, 2016
Time Management and Online Dating

I’m back! Thanks for all the kind words and good thoughts while I’ve been away. The support has meant a great deal to me as I grieve my father’s passing.  Online dating is a real opportunity to be “introduced” to a wide range of people you wouldn’t otherwise meet. One of the most common complaints I […]

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Taking a Short Leave

October 6, 2016
Taking a Short Leave

Just checking in to let my readers know that I’ll be away from the blog for a week or two. My dad is extremely ill, and our family has gathered to be together and spend this last precious time with him.

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