How to Find a Great Guy

08.25.2009

You’d like to meet someone new, someone who has real potential for a meaningful relationship. You know there are a million fish in the sea, but you keep coming across the same bottom feeders again and again. How do you meet a good guy? I. Go where the good guys are. Go west, young woman, [...]

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Your Vagina Looks Familiar, Have We Met?

08.21.2009

Today I’ve got some links that are going to scare the pants right back onto you. I’ve written before about cameras and sex, which, let’s face it, can be a total turn on. Pics of yourself and your lover naked can be a very effective way to build anticipation, whether you’re in a long-distance relationship, [...]

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Chad Kultgen’s Unputdownable Novels

08.19.2009

Recently a college-aged friend turned me on to The Average American Male by Chad Kultgen (2007), a book she found disgusting and reprehensible in every way. She went so far as to say she hated the author. She was about 50 pages in at that point, and it was clear that she had absolutely no intention [...]

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Integrity: The Cure for Emotional Whiplash

08.18.2009

“You’re hot then  you’re cold You’re yes then you’re no You’re in and you’re out You’re up and you’re down Someone call the doctor Got a case of love bipolar Stuck on a rollercoaster Can’t get off this ride” Katy Perry, Hot N Cold I want to write about integrity, but I don’t know what [...]

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25 Ways to Make Life More Interesting

08.14.2009

I’ve been thinking a lot about Seinfeld lately. In particular, the show where George realizes that his life is terrible in nearly every way. He has an epiphany of sorts – he decides to do the opposite. Every time he thinks he knows what he should do, he does a 180 and does the opposite [...]

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Understanding and Managing Jealousy

08.13.2009

Jealousy is one of the most powerful and potentially destructive human emotions. When we feel jealous, we say that we are sick with it. Jealousy is the emotion that can make us feel like we’ve been punched in the stomach and had the wind knocked out of us without warning. It can feel like a [...]

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How to Blow His Mind in Bed

08.10.2009

Yeah, I know this sounds like a tawdry Cosmo article with stupid sex tips, but I figured it would grab your attention. I found it straightforward and informative, always a plus when it comes to sex talk. Sandra Prior is a Brit – I don’t know what it is about the UK these days, but [...]

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Sleeping Around

08.07.2009

Many guys think it’s OK have numerous sexual relationships at the same time. Most girls don’t. Recently in the Washington Post, advice columnist Carolyn Hax weighed in on this question: Anonymous: Hi Carolyn, I am having sex with three people right now. (Not literally right now, but you get the idea.) Two of them have [...]

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Be All the Things You Want In a Partner

08.05.2009

httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9RVGzyiVRAo I need love, love To ease my mind I need to find, find someone to call mine But mama said You can’t hurry love No, you just have to wait She said love don’t come easy It’s a game of give and take Diana Ross and the Supremes, 1966 In the most basic terms, [...]

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Is Your Best Guy Friend Thinking of You With His Right Hand?

08.03.2009

“Joey: You waited too long and now you’re in ‘The Friend Zone’. Ross: No, I’m not in the Zone. Joey: Come on, Ross; you’re mayor of the Zone!” Friends I’m one of those cynics who thinks it is really, really difficult for guys and girls to maintain platonic friendships. I think it works best when: [...]

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