Five Reasons Why You Should Have Lots of Sex
Love is the answer, but while you are waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty good questions. ~Woody Allen There are some very compelling reasons why you should be having sex. A lot of sex. Common sense tells us that the male orgasm directly serves to propagate the species. Although the female orgasm has [...]
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Stop Putting Out for Alpha Asshats
Ugh. I caught my own flesh and blood defending Tucker Max on Twitter. I feel like the cobbler whose kids have no shoes. Mr. Max is a self-described narcissist who embraces debauchery. What’s troubling is how many female fans he seems to have, including overweight ones (see the story Tucker Fucks a Fattie, Hilarity Ensues). Women’s [...]
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The Sweetness of Surrender (His)
I love Jason Mraz’s song I’m Yours. Doesn’t every woman? It’s been on Billboard’s Top 100 chart for 74 weeks, a record. It’s the third-best selling digital song of all time, having sold 4.4 million downloads, and it’s still going strong. Why? Surrender. “Well you done done me and you bet I felt it I [...]
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When You’re Desperate, It’s Time to Get Picky
A few years ago I posed a hypothetical question to my niece, then about 15: Q: There are two men who love you and want to marry you. The first guy is a successful lawyer, drives a BMW, is handsome, kind, and worships the ground you walk on. But well, he is perhaps just a [...]
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Understanding and Managing Jealousy
Jealousy is one of the most powerful and potentially destructive human emotions. When we feel jealous, we say that we are sick with it. Jealousy is the emotion that can make us feel like we’ve been punched in the stomach and had the wind knocked out of us without warning. It can feel like a [...]
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The Art of the Ultimatum
Dear Aunt Sue, I’ve been with this guy Tyler for a while and I really like him a lot. At first we were just hooking up, and we never talked about the relationship or anything. But it became a regular thing, and I developed feelings for him. Then I found out he hooked up with [...]
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The Man Code Sucks!
Dear Aunt Sue, Do you think guys and girls can really be friends? Or does it always get messed up? My boyfriend and I recently broke up, and I really miss some of his guy friends. I hung out with them for more than a year, and now it’s like they’re off limits. I [...]
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JDate Makes Me Fat!
Resolution #1: uggg – will obviously lose 20 lbs. #2: always put last night’s panties in the laundry basket. Equally important: will find nice sensible boyfriend and stop forming romantic attachments to any of the following: alcoholics, workoholics, sexaholics, commitment-phobics, peeping toms, megalomaniacs, emotional fuckwits, or perverts. Bridget Jones Here’s an anonymous journal entry [...]
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Hooking Up With a Cheating Guy
“Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.” Mark Twain Dear Aunt Sue, I’ve been hooking up with this guy a lot lately. I think we’re both really into it. The only thing is, he’s got a girlfriend. He says their relationship isn’t making [...]
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