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What’s Your Ideal Number of Sexual Partners?

April 5, 2017
What’s Your Ideal Number of Sexual Partners?

One topic that comes up regularly here at HUS is the question of sexual history. Specifically, how many sexual partners have you had? Is it something you expect to be asked about? Are you willing to share that information? Do you expect it from someone you’re getting to know? Once you know “the number,” how do […]

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Casual Sex Lessons

March 1, 2016
Casual Sex Lessons

At Bustle, Kristen Sollee recently wrote 6 Valuable Lessons I Learned From Having Casual Sex. Sollee’s bio: “Kristen is the founding editrix of Slutist, a sex positive feminist site…that aims to uncover and undress the intersections between sex, gender, sexuality and feminism in art, culture and politics.” I find her article fascinating in that it provides a […]

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Why Women are Sexually Disgusted By Players

November 4, 2015
Why Women are Sexually Disgusted By Players

Today’s post is the first in a series based on Mate: Become the Man Women Want.  It’s co-authored by reformed bad boy Tucker Max and evolutionary psychologist Geoffrey Miller, who also wrote The Mating Mind. For guys who want a better understanding of women, you can’t beat this book. For starters, it’s brutally honest – which puts […]

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Great Sex Does Not Inspire Commitment

September 3, 2015
Great Sex Does Not Inspire Commitment

CG left a comment in the success story thread that is so epic and insightful, I have to share it. She hit on something I’ve never written about here, though I know all about it. She describes a trap that so many young women fall into – and it’s painful to hear. Here’s CG describing […]

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On the Folly of Faking Interest in Casual Sex

August 4, 2015
On the Folly of Faking Interest in Casual Sex

Regular readers know I’m emphatic about honesty and full disclosure in dating. Usually, deceptive tactics involve guys lying to girls about their intentions in order to get laid. One survey of 1,000 men found: On Faking Interest to Get Sex 56% of guys in bars said they would fake interest in a girl to get sex. […]

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