Tag: dating advice

When Ghosting Is Not Rude

April 12, 2016
When Ghosting Is Not Rude

Buzzfeed recently explored the morality of ghosting in the article In Defense of Ghosting. Prior to reading it, I assumed it was a self-serving excuse for behaving badly – pulling a rude and surprising disappearing act after sending signals of sustained interest. So I was quite surprised when I read it and learned just how low […]

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One-Sided Monogamy?

February 23, 2016
One-Sided Monogamy?

A reader wonders whether she should accept a guy’s proposal that she be exclusive while he sees other women. One-sided monogamy? This is a first for my inbox. Hi Susan, I’m in a new situation with a guy I’ve been seeing for about two months now. Early on when we first started dating, I was […]

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Avoid Curating Your Relationship on Social Media

February 22, 2016
Avoid Curating Your Relationship on Social Media

We all curate our social media activity – and that means lots of spin. That in turn leads to misinformation, especially the fear that everyone else is happier and more successful in love than you are. Do you experience this? Have you posted updates to social media that show your relationship in a misleading way? […]

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Dating Fast or Dating Binge?

February 19, 2016
Dating Fast or Dating Binge?

This week I’ve come across two interesting but conflicting concepts- the dating fast and the dating binge. What are these strategies? Is one is right for you? The Dating Fast Sunday’s NYXs wedding section featured the story of a couple who met while the guy was on a “dating fast.” Serena Powery did not know […]

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10 Bad Dating Habits to Lose in 2016

January 12, 2016
10 Bad Dating Habits to Lose in 2016

During a recent discussion a reader requested a post on stupid ideas about love that prevent people from finding it. I can’t think of a better way to start 2016 than to get your dating house in order by ditching bad dating habits. Here goes, off the top of my head: 1. Stop thinking you can […]

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