Tag: dating advice

10 Bad Dating Habits to Lose in 2016

January 12, 2016
10 Bad Dating Habits to Lose in 2016

During a recent discussion a reader requested a post on stupid ideas about love that prevent people from finding it. I can’t think of a better way to start 2016 than to get your dating house in order by ditching bad dating habits. Here goes, off the top of my head: 1. Stop thinking you can […]

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The 10 Biggest Dating Mistakes Women Make

June 10, 2015
The 10 Biggest Dating Mistakes Women Make

Mistakes are unavoidable in dating, and the best we can hope for is that we learn from them and go on to form good relationships. I find that women often make poor choices because they suffer from low self-worth. Unfortunately, they find themselves repeatedly attracting the very men who seek insecure women (either consciously or unconsciously), and […]

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Last-Minute Dates: Spontaneous or Disrespectful?

March 17, 2015
Last-Minute Dates: Spontaneous or Disrespectful?

How do you feel about last-minute dates? Does a late invitation mean spontaneity or disrespect? Earlier I was speaking with reader Madeleine, who was telling me about a date she’d been on this past weekend. Bo texted her at noon Sunday, saying, “Hey if you don’t have plans already, how about meeting up later? We could […]

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The Heart Wants…What the Penis Wants?

June 13, 2013
The Heart Wants…What the Penis Wants?

Reader Apple left a comment today that I thought was brilliant re the timing of sex: Really, it comes down to a woman having the balls to say: “I don’t care what your penis wants if you don’t care what my heart wants.” The actual line I’ve always used in real life is: “I don’t […]

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Matthew Hussey on Men and Commitment

June 6, 2013
Matthew Hussey on Men and Commitment

I just finished reading Matthew Hussey’s Get the Guy, and I have to say it’s about the best book on dating and relationships I’ve ever read. I’m not alone – his rating on Amazon is a 4.8 out of 5. I strongly encourage you to buy it here.  (Speaking of ratings, he’s adorable – sort of […]

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