Tag: dating advice

The Heart Wants…What the Penis Wants?

June 13, 2013 1,774 Comments
The Heart Wants…What the Penis Wants?

Reader Apple left a comment today that I thought was brilliant re the timing of sex: Really, it comes down to a woman having the balls to say: “I don’t care what your penis wants if you don’t care what my heart wants.” The actual line I’ve always used in real life is: “I don’t […]

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Matthew Hussey on Men and Commitment

June 6, 2013 339 Comments
Matthew Hussey on Men and Commitment

I just finished reading Matthew Hussey’s Get the Guy, and I have to say it’s about the best book on dating and relationships I’ve ever read. I’m not alone – his rating on Amazon is a 4.8 out of 5. I strongly encourage you to buy it here.  (Speaking of ratings, he’s adorable – sort of […]

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The One and Only Way to Avoid Being F*cked Over

May 30, 2013 1,234 Comments
The One and Only Way to Avoid Being F*cked Over

Hi Susan, I really find your forum very helpful, and I think I already know the answer to my question, but I am going to ask anyway. I have been dating this guy for four months. We met online but he is amazing. We both live in Brooklyn and he owns his own custom made […]

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How to Meet Guys After College

May 14, 2013 661 Comments
How to Meet Guys After College

“What good is sitting alone in your room? Come hear the music play. Life is a Cabaret, old chum, Come to the Cabaret.”   Fred Ebb, Cabaret   “Eighty percent of success is showing up.”   Woody Allen   A reader writes: I’m 25 and sad to report that these issues seem to persist well […]

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Defining the Relationship, the Easy Way

May 6, 2013 804 Comments
Defining the Relationship, the Easy Way

I get a lot of positive feedback from readers on the effectiveness of my advice, which is one of my primary rewards as a blogger.  But there’s one area where young women continually struggle to implement HUS strategy: No Sex Before Monogamy.  Don’t get me wrong – it’s not that women want to have sex […]

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