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A Flurry of Flustered Feminists, Finally

Posted by Susan Walsh on Mar 5, 2010 in Hooking Up Realities, Relationship Strategies

I am a post-baby boomer who has been handed a sort of Spice Girls’ version of feminism. We’re supposed to be wearing half-shirts and jumping around. And, you know, maybe that’s not panning out.
Tina Fey, Vogue, March 2010

Recently I wrote about feminist Rachel Simmons’ criticism of hookup culture, and how it produced a flurry [...]

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How Feminism Got Drunk and Hooked Up With a Loser

Posted by Susan Walsh on Mar 1, 2010 in Hooking Up Realities, Relationship Strategies, What Guys Want

Rachel Simmons set the under-40 femosphere back on its heels last week with a column on her blog:
Is Hooking Up Good For Girls? (click here)
Ms. Simmons is an interesting hybrid – she is the advice columnist for Teen Vogue, but she is also a scholar (Rhodes) on the subject of female aggression and has strong [...]

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Feminist, Forgotten and Furious

Posted by Susan Walsh on Feb 22, 2010 in Personal Development, Relationship Strategies

However beautiful the strategy, you should occasionally look at the results.
Winston Churchill

It’s official. There’s a tidal wave of books coming at us recounting the poor choices women are making through their 20s and 30s. First we had Accidentally on Purpose by Mary Pols, then Marry Him by Lori Gottlieb, and today VJ clued me in [...]

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The Sex Risk For Women That No One Likes To Talk About

Posted by Susan Walsh on Jan 29, 2010 in Hooking Up Realities, Relationship Strategies, What Guys Want

Recently a 29 year-old guy wrote into the Love Letters section of the Boston Globe looking for guidance. Usually Meredith Goldstein, who writes the column, gives excellent advice. In which case there’s no point in my saying anything further. In this case, however, I think she really missed the boat.
Here’s the letter:
About a year ago, [...]

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Can Hooking Up Empower You?

Posted by Susan Walsh on Nov 12, 2009 in Hooking Up Realities

Damn, I knew I shouldn’t have raised the spectre of Sex-Positive Feminists in my post yesterday. It was a jinx, and this morning I woke up to an ABC news feature: Sexual Hook Ups Damned By Chastity Groups, Hailed By New Feminists It’s about how students at Harvard are once again hotly debating the issue. Do I [...]

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