There’s a new double-standard being applied to women in relationships, and it’s even more insidious than Studs. vs. Sluts. A favorite tactic of young men when questioned about their questionable behavior is to accuse the self-respecting woman of being a PSYCHO.
I’ll be the first to admit I’m not a licensed psychologist. I may dish out a [...]
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It’s easy to understand why women get really discouraged as they look around, especially on college campuses. Even the cutest guys become repulsive by virtue of their behavior, which often ranges from idiotic to crass to just plain rude. Most of these guys will probably turn out great. They’ll mature and settle down to be [...]
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Posted by Susan Walsh on Mar 18, 2009 in
Girl Talk,
Tidbits I’m away for a couple of days, but I’m leaving you some toys to play with:
1. Check out Pixcetera’s fascinating look at what magazines do to photos of celebrities. I’ll take Robert Pattinson both Before and After. Love the unibrow, love the crooked nose, love the bed hair. Bite me.
2. Blair Thill, a graduating senior [...]
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Resolution #1: uggg – will obviously lose 20 lbs.
#2: always put last night’s panties in the laundry basket.
Equally important: will find nice sensible boyfriend and stop forming romantic attachments to any of the following: alcoholics, workoholics, sexaholics, commitment-phobics, peeping toms, megalomaniacs, emotional fuckwits, or perverts.
Bridget Jones
Here’s an anonymous journal entry that made me [...]
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Posted by Susan Walsh on Dec 27, 2008 in
Girl Talk,
Tidbits,
What Guys Want While working on a piece on Feminism and Hooking Up, I stumbled across a blog called The Clothes That Got Me Laid. I love it – it is a highly irreverent and fun series of stories about what people wear when they hook up. Girls work so hard to look good when they go out; [...]
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Posted by Susan Walsh on Dec 11, 2008 in
Tidbits,
What Guys Want
Found this gem over at RoFrKa: Welcome to My Life, a blog by Robert Kafka. Perhaps a 12-step recovery program for Emotional F*ckwits would help.
“I never go on a date with any expectations, I just know the 12 Stages of a Hook Up.”
Stage 1: Chatting
Stage 2: Hugging
Stage 3: Drinking
Stage 4: Eating
Stage 5: Kissing
Stage 6: Rubbing
Stage 7: Grabbing
Stage 8: Licking
Stage 9: Sucking
Stage 10: Fucking
Stage 11: Cuddling
Stage 12: Leaving
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“And what about us? Free, we say, yet the truth is they get erections when they’re with a woman they don’t give a damn about, but we don’t have an orgasm unless we love him. What’s free about that?”
Doris Lessing, The Golden Notebook
Let’s assume you have considered and dismissed the disadvantages of hooking [...]
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Posted by Susan Walsh on Nov 24, 2008 in
Tidbits,
What Guys Want Can’t live with ‘em, can’t live with ‘em. Another good vid from CollegeHumor.com.
What Guys Really Think About in Class
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