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The Hidden Cost of Keeping Sex Casual

November 29, 2010
The Hidden Cost of Keeping Sex Casual

One of the most valuable key economic concepts is that of opportunity cost. It’s the cost of not choosing something, the benefits left behind on the road not taken, and it’s an important component of any choice you make. Sometimes the tradeoff is obvious – if you choose to date Brad, you’re giving up the […]

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College Math: Slut + Lush = Slush

October 5, 2010
College Math: Slut + Lush = Slush

A few weeks ago a woman named Joy Brondite left a comment at Feministing mentioning that she had discovered Hooking Up Smart. Though she found it verbose and overly analytical 🙁 , and didn’t enjoy the lively discussion, I was more interested in this statement: “There is this notion of slut shaming in the media […]

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How Guys Really Feel About the Girls They Hook Up With

August 31, 2010
How Guys Really Feel About the Girls They Hook Up With

It’s been expressed by numerous women here, most recently by Sara, the writer of the letter in yesterday’s post, that sitting out the casual sex scene in college means getting very little male attention. She said: Guys I feel no attraction to creepily hitting on me constantly simply trying to sleep with me that night, […]

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How to Flip a Player

June 30, 2010
How to Flip a Player

Yeah, I know. Why would I tell you how to flip a player, turn a cad, tame an asshole? I spend much of my time telling you not to put out for these types. I write at great length about how miserable these men make women. How they can have tons of casual sex with […]

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Time Management for Players

June 6, 2010
Time Management for Players

This is a picture of the texts Tara received from Paolo the day after meeting him. Both in their 20s, they shared an immediate attraction. He asked for her number, saying he would really like to see her again. Tara said he seemed like a really good guy.

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