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The Unsexy Millennials

August 10, 2016
The Unsexy Millennials

A new study on Sexual Inactivity During Young Adulthood by Jean Twenge et al builds on previous research showing that Millennials are less sexually active than prior generations. The latest response has been somewhat hysterical, with many articles assuming that delayed sexual activity is a bad thing. It’s also been erroneously focusing almost entirely on (elite) […]

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The Sharp Rise in Bisexuality Among Young Americans

June 9, 2016
The Sharp Rise in Bisexuality Among Young Americans

While reading A Little Life by Hanya Yanagahira recently, I came across a passage where Willem, a key character who is a very good looking film star, mentions in passing that although he is straight, he’s had sex over the years with men sometimes. He said it was true of most of the straight guys he […]

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Redemption For a Douchebag?

May 12, 2016
Redemption For a Douchebag?

Bessie writes: Dear Susan, I’ve been in a relationship with Jacob for two months, and he’s always treated me very well. However, I recently discovered that he has treated other girls in the past like a “douchebag” would (including leading them on and using them for sex). I don’t doubt that he loves me and cares […]

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The Blowjob as Snow Job

April 7, 2016
The Blowjob as Snow Job

Peggy Orenstein’s new book Girls and Sex: Navigating the New Landscape has kicked up a lot of interest. Many are alarmed by her findings based on 70 interviews, but there’s nothing much that surprises me there. From Amazon: “While the media has focused—often to sensational effect—on the rise of casual sex and the prevalence of […]

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Hookup Culture Not to Blame For Our Single Status

December 1, 2015
Hookup Culture Not to Blame For Our Single Status

We can no longer blame hookup culture or casual sexual mores in society for our single status. The Science of Us at New York magazine just published this short video. It’s a summary that matches much of my own analysis over the past five years, and I’m gratified to see a more accurate picture of contemporary dating […]

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