When You’re Desperate, It’s Time to Get Picky
A few years ago I posed a hypothetical question to my niece, then about 15: Q: There are two men who love you and want to marry you. The first guy is a successful lawyer, drives a BMW, is handsome, kind, and worships the ground you walk on. But well, he is perhaps just a [...]
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Monday Medicine
1. I love Indexed. Jessica Hagy is brilliant and funny. You must subscribe to this – I do and I get so excited when it shows up in my Google reader! Here are a couple of my faves, but there are waaaayyyy more where these came from, so head on over there. Ouch [...]
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Intimacy Lite, A Product Not Worth Buying
“Your bones have been my bedframe and your flesh has been my pillow. And I`m waiting for sleep.” Ani DiFranco Em & Lo recently answered a letter from a reader where they coined the term Intimacy Lite. You know what Intimacy Lite is. It’s what you’re getting from your Pretend Boyfriend. Girls find it very [...]
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