When You’re Desperate, It’s Time to Get Picky

A few years ago I posed a hypothetical question to my niece, then about 15: Q: There are two men who love you and want to marry you. The first guy is a successful lawyer, drives a BMW, is handsome, kind, and worships the ground you walk on. But well, he is perhaps just a [...]

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