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How to Let Your Guard Down and Love Again

Posted by Susan Walsh on Oct 5, 2009 in Ask Susan, Personal Development, Relationship Strategies

Dear Susan,
I’m a 21 year-old college student, so I’m completely immersed in the hookup culture. Like many girls I know, I’ve been hurt by a number of jerks and players that I dated. A while back, I decided to stick to nice guys, but it’s very difficult to trust anyone. I can’t stand the idea [...]

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Thinking Outside the Friend Box

Posted by Susan Walsh on Jul 9, 2009 in Hooking Up Realities, Personal Development, Relationship Strategies

“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”

Wayne Gretzky

As far as I can tell, there are three different camps of guys that girls love to gossip about:
1. Guys they have the hots for.
2. Guys that suck.
Note: “Guys they have the hots for” often progress to “guys that suck” over time.
3. Guys they [...]

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5 Ways to Get More Control of Your Relationships

Posted by Susan Walsh on Jun 29, 2009 in Hooking Up Realities, Relationship Strategies, What Guys Want

“I have no power. Why should she have the upper hand? Once in my life I would like the upper hand. I have no hand. No hand at all. She has the hand. I have no hand.”
George
“We all want the hand. Hand is tough to get.”
Jerry
Willard Waller was a sociologist who coined the phrase [...]

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Why Nice Guys Ignore the Girls They Like

Posted by Susan Walsh on Jun 11, 2009 in Hooking Up Realities, Relationship Strategies, What Guys Want

I found this bit of humor at Buzzfeed, but I suspect  know that many guys would call it 100% accurate. We call them jerks and douchebags, but we go for them anyway, don’t we? If we didn’t they’d be forced to stop acting so nasty to get laid. Do we force nice guys into last [...]

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