How to Stop Falling For the Wrong People
I think I’m drowning asphyxiated I wanna break this spell that you’ve created you’re something beautiful a contradiction I wanna play the game I want the friction Muse, Time is Running Out It’s all about the friction. Friction (def.): 1. The rubbing of one object or surface against another. 2. Conflict, as between persons having [...]
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Integrity: The Cure for Emotional Whiplash
“You’re hot then you’re cold You’re yes then you’re no You’re in and you’re out You’re up and you’re down Someone call the doctor Got a case of love bipolar Stuck on a rollercoaster Can’t get off this ride” Katy Perry, Hot N Cold I want to write about integrity, but I don’t know what [...]
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The New Double Standard Being Used Against Women
There’s a new double-standard being applied to women in relationships, and it’s even more insidious than Studs. vs. Sluts. A favorite tactic of young men when questioned about their questionable behavior is to accuse the self-respecting woman of being a PSYCHO. I’ll be the first to admit I’m not a licensed psychologist. I may dish out [...]
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Intimacy Lite, A Product Not Worth Buying
“Your bones have been my bedframe and your flesh has been my pillow. And I`m waiting for sleep.” Ani DiFranco Em & Lo recently answered a letter from a reader where they coined the term Intimacy Lite. You know what Intimacy Lite is. It’s what you’re getting from your Pretend Boyfriend. Girls find it very [...]
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