Posted by Susan Walsh on Aug 21, 2009 in
Hooking Up Realities Today I’ve got some links that are going to scare the pants right back onto you. I’ve written before about cameras and sex, which, let’s face it, can be a total turn on. Pics of yourself and your lover naked can be a very effective way to build anticipation, whether you’re in a long-distance relationship, [...]
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Posted by Susan Walsh on Aug 3, 2009 in
Relationship Strategies,
What Guys Want “Joey: You waited too long and now you’re in ‘The Friend Zone’.
Ross: No, I’m not in the Zone.
Joey: Come on, Ross; you’re mayor of the Zone!”
Friends
I’m one of those cynics who thinks it is really, really difficult for guys and girls to maintain platonic friendships. I think it works best when:
One or [...]
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Posted by Susan Walsh on Jul 8, 2009 in
Personal Development Yesterday after posting Are You Dating a Narcissist? I still felt curious about the topic and was thinking of other potential posts related to narcissism. (One is the possible correlation between narcissism and penis size. I’ll let you know if I turn up anything interesting!) Poking around online, I came across the Narcissistic Personality Inventory [...]
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One of the reasons that young people prefer to hook up casually is that they are hesitant to get emotionally invested in a relationship with an expiration date on it. The school year ends, people study abroad, job offers come from different cities, as do acceptances to graduate school. Most people can expect to be [...]
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Posted by Susan Walsh on May 1, 2009 in
Hooking Up Realities,
What Guys Want
I propose that straight men try watching gay porn for a change, so they can learn what women want.
What, you don’t find that intuitively obvious? It actually makes perfect sense. I can explain. Research shows that online porn is the single largest source of sexual information for young men. They watch it alone, and they also [...]
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Posted by Susan Walsh on Apr 28, 2009 in
Hooking Up Realities,
Tidbits,
What Guys Want “Maturity is a bitter disappointment for which no remedy exists, unless laughter can be said to remedy anything.”
Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.
Q: Why are college guys acting like adolescent knuckleheads?
A: Because they can.
Wow. College guys are having such a good time! It’s hard to imagine that two generations ago college men were serious and earnest about beginning [...]
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Posted by Susan Walsh on Apr 22, 2009 in
Tidbits
I love making lists. I even make lists of my lists. I have lists of list-making software, and I write on my To Do list that I need to learn how to work all my online To Do lists. It’s a little neurotic, I know. I have a touch of OCD – in a good [...]
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Posted by Susan Walsh on Apr 21, 2009 in
Ask Susan I need to talk to you about a really important guy in my life. His name is Stumble Upon. He is huge and powerful, and whenever I spend time with him I feel special. He gives me so much attention! He has introduced me to a ton of people already, but I want to meet everyone [...]
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