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Sleeping Around

Posted by Susan Walsh on Aug 7, 2009 in Hooking Up Realities, Relationship Strategies, What Guys Want

Many guys think it’s OK have numerous sexual relationships at the same time. Most girls don’t. Recently in the Washington Post, advice columnist Carolyn Hax weighed in on this question:
Anonymous: Hi Carolyn,
I am having sex with three people right now. (Not literally right now, but you get the idea.) Two of them have no idea [...]

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Player or Boyfriend? It’s Written On His Forehead

Posted by Susan Walsh on Jul 31, 2009 in Hooking Up Realities, Relationship Strategies, What Guys Want

Wouldn’t it be great if you could take one look at someone’s face and know if they were relationship material? It turns out that people are remarkably accurate at predicting just that. A study at Durham University in England showed that Boyfriends look significantly different than Players. Check out this example:

At first I thought these [...]

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You Are Who You Sleep With

Posted by Susan Walsh on Jun 4, 2009 in Hooking Up Realities, Relationship Strategies

I have one final thought I want to share with you from the story of how I got together with my husband all those years ago. It’s tricky, but I think it’s important, so here goes.
You say a lot about who you are and what you want when you decide to have sex with someone.
I [...]

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How Promiscuous Are You?

Posted by Susan Walsh on May 27, 2009 in Hooking Up Realities, Tidbits

Mingle2 – How Sexually Experienced Are You?18
There’s a very interesting character named Matthew Inman, who’s sort of a Renaissance Geek. He’s a powerhouse in online marketing, but he also has a goofy side. He’s created all kinds of funny and charming things, including an online dating site called Mingle 2. There’s a blog on it [...]

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Boycott Man Whores!

Posted by Susan Walsh on May 21, 2009 in Hooking Up Realities, Relationship Strategies, What Guys Want

Man whore:
A sexually active, promiscuous, younger man who is well known at most health clinics and may have an STD named after him in his honor.
Would you date a man whore? Me neither.
What if he was willing, even eager, to be exclusive with you? Me neither.

Recently I’ve noticed a real and dramatic shift in the [...]

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What’s Dumb About Hooking Up? (Part I)

Posted by Susan Walsh on Nov 25, 2008 in Hooking Up Realities

“You’re promiscuous if you do anything, but you’re a prude if you do nothing.”

Naomi Wolf
 
Let me say right off that I don’t have a problem with hooking up in a moral sense. As a former wild child I understand the appeal of the one-night stand. It’s not always a bad idea, and it [...]

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