Tag: relationship advice

The Introspective Man

July 8, 2013 502 Comments
The Introspective Man

Think about it, bro. Posted on July 2, 2013 by Jessica Hagy   Definition of INTROSPECTION : a reflective looking inward : an examination of one’s own thoughts and feelings   Synonyms:  self-contemplation self-examination self-observation self-questioning self-reflection self-scrutiny self-searching soul-searching The ancient Greeks understood the value of introspection, as evidenced in the aphorism “Know thyself.” According to Plato, Socrates said that “the […]

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How to Get a Boyfriend in College

July 3, 2013 589 Comments
How to Get a Boyfriend in College

The first and most critical step to finding a relationship in college is choosing a guy who’s capable of and interested in having one. Avoid wasting time, emotional energy (and a number!) on guys who are not relationship material.  Take this quiz and see where you should be investing your effort.

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Hoping For Those Three Little Words

June 27, 2013 570 Comments
Hoping For Those Three Little Words

Dear Susan, Love your website. Have been an avid reader for a couple years now. I hope you can take a look at my situation as outlined below. I’m having a hard time understanding if the relationship I am in currently is likely to lead to marriage. We met online five months ago. We met […]

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The Cohabitation Blues

June 19, 2013 173 Comments
The Cohabitation Blues

Should you move in with your boyfriend? That depends. Do you know he’s “the one?” Does he feel the same way about you? If so, and your engagement is just a matter of time, I think it can work very well. That’s what Mr. HUS and I did when we both moved to NYC after […]

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The Heart Wants…What the Penis Wants?

June 13, 2013 1,774 Comments
The Heart Wants…What the Penis Wants?

Reader Apple left a comment today that I thought was brilliant re the timing of sex: Really, it comes down to a woman having the balls to say: “I don’t care what your penis wants if you don’t care what my heart wants.” The actual line I’ve always used in real life is: “I don’t […]

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