Posted by Susan Walsh on Aug 14, 2009 in
Personal Development I’ve been thinking a lot about Seinfeld lately. In particular, the show where George realizes that his life is terrible in nearly every way. He has an epiphany of sorts — he decides to do the opposite. Every time he thinks he knows what he should do, he does a 180 and does the opposite [...]
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Wouldn’t it be great if you could take one look at someone’s face and know if they were relationship material? It turns out that people are remarkably accurate at predicting just that. A study at Durham University in England showed that Boyfriends look significantly different than Players. Check out this example:
At first I thought these [...]
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“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”
Wayne Gretzky
As far as I can tell, there are three different camps of guys that girls love to gossip about:
1. Guys they have the hots for.
2. Guys that suck.
Note: “Guys they have the hots for” often progress to “guys that suck” over time.
3. Guys they [...]
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Man whore:
A sexually active, promiscuous, younger man who is well known at most health clinics and may have an STD named after him in his honor.
Would you date a man whore? Me neither.
What if he was willing, even eager, to be exclusive with you? Me neither.
Recently I’ve noticed a real and dramatic shift in the [...]
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Posted by Susan Walsh on Apr 29, 2009 in
Tidbits,
What Guys Want Continuing the thread from yesterday re college as the new preschool. The Boston Globe ran an article yesterday featuring the game Humans vs. Zombies: Beware: This Game is Infectious
Six Nerf toy guns with names like “Maverkick” and “MagStrike” hang from Tyler Clark’s shoulders and waist. He fires them to fight off an army of zombies [...]
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Posted by Susan Walsh on Dec 2, 2008 in
Ask Susan,
What Guys Want
“Mr. Right’s coming, but he’s in Africa, and he’s walking.”
Oprah Winfrey
Aunt Sue,
Ugggghhhhh, I don’t get it! I am so frustrated. I thought for sure this boy was different. I mean, I’ve been through this a million times. I figured out a long time ago that guys will hardly ever call after a random hookup, [...]
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