Posted by Susan Walsh on May 26, 2009 in
Relationship Strategies
“In gardens, beauty is a by-product. The main business is sex and death.” Sam Llewelyn I spent my holiday weekend digging holes. I am a gardener, and every year on Memorial Day I plant, and weed, and water, and generally launch my garden for the summer. I confess I feel sheepish admitting this, because I [...]
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Posted by Susan Walsh on Apr 13, 2009 in
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Relationship Strategies
Dear Aunt Sue, I’ve been with this guy Tyler for a while and I really like him a lot. At first we were just hooking up, and we never talked about the relationship or anything. But it became a regular thing, and I developed feelings for him. Then I found out he hooked up with [...]
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