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What About YOUR Wants and Needs?

October 4, 2017
What About YOUR Wants and Needs?

J 2.0, a longtime friend and wise counselor at Hooking Up Smart, recently shared this invaluable advice: “If I had my youth to do over, I’d be far more forthcoming with men about my wants and needs and just let the chips fall where they may. That’s not to say I’d be demanding or clingy […]

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Three-Date Rule? Make That Eight.

September 30, 2017
Three-Date Rule? Make That Eight.

A new study by Groupon of 2,000 singles has found that both women and men prefer to delay sex much longer than previously assumed. No doubt you’ve heard about the three-date rule – the number of dates before both parties expect to have sex. If you’re a woman, you’ve probably had guys inform you of […]

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Online Dating is Only Good For Swiping

September 21, 2017
Online Dating is Only Good For Swiping

New research¬†(Joel, Eastwick, and Finkel, 2017) makes it clear – the most useful application of online dating is the right swipe. Matchmaking algorithms at online dating sites like Chemistry.com, eHarmony and OKCupid do not work. They may or may not predict long-term compatibility, but they definitely do not predict attraction. In our time, that’s a […]

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The Most Important Thing You Need to Know About Female Orgasm

September 12, 2017
The Most Important Thing You Need to Know About Female Orgasm

One of the things women worry about most in their sex lives is not having orgasms during intercourse. Young women will often ask me if they’re normal or there’s something wrong. I always ask a woman if she is able to have an orgasm in other ways, whether through oral sex, masturbation or having her […]

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10 Legit Reasons He Doesn’t Want a Relationship (With You)

August 29, 2017
10 Legit Reasons He Doesn’t Want a Relationship (With You)

A common complaint among women is that they feel used when the man they’ve been seeing says he doesn’t want a relationship. Usually they’ve been having sex as weeks and months have ticked by. Inevitably the woman forces the issue, only to learn the guy will not commit. (Sometimes he qualifies this by saying he’s […]

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