Online Dating is Only Good For Swiping

September 21, 2017
Online Dating is Only Good For Swiping

New research (Joel, Eastwick, and Finkel, 2017) makes it clear – the most useful application of online dating is the right swipe. Matchmaking algorithms at online dating sites like Chemistry.com, eHarmony and OKCupid do not work. They may or may not predict long-term compatibility, but they definitely do not predict attraction. In our time, that’s a […]

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The Most Important Thing You Need to Know About Female Orgasm

September 12, 2017
The Most Important Thing You Need to Know About Female Orgasm

One of the things women worry about most in their sex lives is not having orgasms during intercourse. Young women will often ask me if they’re normal or there’s something wrong. I always ask a woman if she is able to have an orgasm in other ways, whether through oral sex, masturbation or having her […]

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10 Legit Reasons He Doesn’t Want a Relationship (With You)

August 29, 2017
10 Legit Reasons He Doesn’t Want a Relationship (With You)

A common complaint among women is that they feel used when the man they’ve been seeing says he doesn’t want a relationship. Usually they’ve been having sex as weeks and months have ticked by. Inevitably the woman forces the issue, only to learn the guy will not commit. (Sometimes he qualifies this by saying he’s […]

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How to Make the Best First Impression

August 21, 2017
How to Make the Best First Impression

Guess how long it takes to form a clear first impression that is unlikely to be revised? 1/10 of a second. That’s all is takes for someone to judge you based on your face. Allowing more time for impressions doesn’t change that judgment. In a series of experiments, judgments were remarkably consistent across subjects – […]

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To Be or Not to Be…Vulnerable

August 8, 2017
To Be or Not to Be…Vulnerable

I received an article from a reader named Vicki that immediately struck me as worthy of discussion/debate here at HUS. It’s from the Sydney Morning Herald, an Australian newspaper that has run some interesting articles about relationships over the years. In Why do we expect relationships to work instantly? writer and actor Koraly Dimitriadis argues that […]

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