Tag: hooking up

Redemption For a Douchebag?

May 12, 2016
Redemption For a Douchebag?

Bessie writes: Dear Susan, I’ve been in a relationship with Jacob for two months, and he’s always treated me very well. However, I recently discovered that he has treated other girls in the past like a “douchebag” would (including leading them on and using them for sex). I don’t doubt that he loves me and cares […]

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How to Avoid Being a Sexual Conquest

November 25, 2014
How to Avoid Being a Sexual Conquest

My Thanksgiving houseguests arrive tonight, but I wanted to eke out one post this week. I wish you a wonderful Happy Thanksgiving with family and friends. I am thankful to each one of you for reading, commenting, and making HUS a supportive and informative community! Also, I want to share a link I think you’ll find illuminating. […]

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Kate Taylor Pimps Penn’s Hookup Culture

July 17, 2013
Kate Taylor Pimps Penn’s Hookup Culture

Kate Taylor’s article describing the hookup culture at Penn has attracted a lot of criticism, most notably from Penn students themselves, including some who participated in her research. They disagree with her characterization of women as fueling a no-strings sex norm, and reject the featured “mysterious A.” as typical of Penn women. They appear perplexed […]

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The One and Only Way to Avoid Being F*cked Over

May 30, 2013
The One and Only Way to Avoid Being F*cked Over

Hi Susan, I really find your forum very helpful, and I think I already know the answer to my question, but I am going to ask anyway. I have been dating this guy for four months. We met online but he is amazing. We both live in Brooklyn and he owns his own custom made […]

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Defining the Relationship, the Easy Way

May 6, 2013
Defining the Relationship, the Easy Way

I get a lot of positive feedback from readers on the effectiveness of my advice, which is one of my primary rewards as a blogger.  But there’s one area where young women continually struggle to implement HUS strategy: No Sex Before Monogamy.  Don’t get me wrong – it’s not that women want to have sex […]

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