Tag: relationship

Did You Feel the “Spark” When You First Met Your Partner?

June 27, 2018
Did You Feel the “Spark” When You First Met Your Partner?

People talk a lot about the “spark.” What is the “spark,” to be exact? Do you need to feel the spark for something to take off? Does it constantly change, morphing into a slightly different feeling of chemistry with each new partner? Or will you only ever feel it once? Will you never feel it […]

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10 Legit Reasons He Doesn’t Want a Relationship (With You)

August 29, 2017
10 Legit Reasons He Doesn’t Want a Relationship (With You)

A common complaint among women is that they feel used when the man they’ve been seeing says he doesn’t want a relationship. Usually they’ve been having sex as weeks and months have ticked by. Inevitably the woman forces the issue, only to learn the guy will not commit. (Sometimes he qualifies this by saying he’s […]

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Old FWB or New Shy Boy?

January 5, 2010
Old FWB or New Shy Boy?

Dear Susan, First let me say I love, love, love your blog…it’s required daily reading for me! I would really appreciate any insight/advice you have about my current situation…Basically, it’s the classic tale as old as time…the old f*ck buddy conundrum. Last spring, while in the final semester of grad school, I started hooking up […]

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Help, I’m In a “Whatever” With a Guy I Really Like

December 17, 2009
Help, I’m In a “Whatever” With a Guy I Really Like

Dear Susan, I’m having a problem with the guy I’m seeing, but I don’t know if I’m being unreasonable, or if he’s just not that into me. I’m 23 and he’s a year older. We met at a friend’s party a couple of months ago, and started hanging out pretty regularly after that. He treats […]

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How to Stop Falling For the Wrong People

November 10, 2009
How to Stop Falling For the Wrong People

I think I’m drowning asphyxiated I wanna break this spell that you’ve created you’re something beautiful a contradiction I wanna play the game I want the friction Muse, Time is Running Out It’s all about the friction. Friction (def.): 1. The rubbing of one object or surface against another. 2. Conflict, as between persons having […]

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